The world is having a moment right now. Though the pandemic is over, life as we knew it has not returned, and likely won’t. As the saying goes, “Change is the only constant in life,” and we’re feeling that acutely these days.
Adding to the different terrain is the role social media plays, not only in how quickly news is shared, but by shaping the news we see. Instead of feeling more unified and connected, curated feeds have served to make us feel more separate and isolated than before.
It is easier than ever to become entrenched in our points of view, as we are fed a steady diet of like-minded thinking, and so become less tolerant of those who have different perspectives and ideas. Yet, it doesn’t have to be this way. We each are responsible for what we think and what we say, and the challenge I offer to you here, can serve to lessen the energy of divisiveness that is dominating the social/political scene, at least here in the U.S.
They are just four simple, common words, but spoken together, they are profound.
I could be wrong.
Now you might be thinking, “You’re kidding, right, Diane? How could questioning myself help in any way?”
The power of the words, “I could be wrong,” lies in the recognition that there is more than one way to see any issue. Not a single one of us has the lockdown on truth with a capital T. This is not to say we can’t or shouldn’t have opinions, but that no one benefits if we shut the door on the fact that another person may also have a legitimate point of view.
To embrace the possibility that you may be wrong creates space for discussion; space for understanding and meaningful communication. It makes it easier to put down our sword and shield and look for common ground, instead of what divides us.
In the very contentious society in which we live, do you think you can say this? When you have shared your opinion of how things should be, could you tack on the phrase, “I could be wrong.”? It feels like we are leaving ourselves in a vulnerable position, or coming across as weak for not firmly stating the truth as we see it, yet being wise and brave enough to leave room for others to share their perspectives could be what begins to create a more tolerant, less defensive and violent world.
But, I could be wrong.
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